I know he didn't write this book for me, so it seems odd to say that I appreciate Dan for having written it. But I do. As the wife of a former Marine pilot, who served with Dan, I would send my husband off - to war, to train - with ever-present but varying levels of concern, dread, and curiosity. What really goes on over there? What is it like when they're flying? Now I feel like I know. Really, Shoe, you fell asleep?!I read this book over the course of a few days, neglecting many of my obligations, and another book that was in line ahead of it, in the process. I just found it hard to stop reading. When the book arrived, it fell open to one of the last chapters when I took it out of the box. With a tear-stained face, I decided I should go ahead and start at the beginning, having read the end. On a personal level, I am glad that I got a glimpse of the personality of one of the men that my husband chose to honor by giving our son his name, and then Dan flew me over the helicopter crash that killed the other pilot for whom my son is named. Part of what made the book so compelling to read, notwithstanding my personal connections, was this vivid story-telling. It seemed like I was actually there, flying along on the missions, hanging out with the guys.As the wife of a war veteran, I also appreciate that the book is more than a turbo-charged, testosterone-laden thrill ride. There are real people at home and real lives to pick back up with when the action ends. Dan shows that his bravery persists after the fighting by choosing to tackle his personal demons and then sharing them with all of us. He shows a true love for his comrade in arms, and a hope that his account of his personal struggle might help someone else with theirs.I've read several books in this genre. I consider them all to be worthwhile, but this one is unique. This book is very well written, which is not always the case. Some books of this type delve into subject matters that are weighty and academic, and some become detailed accounts of history or policy. This one doesn't attempt to be more than it is. It is an exciting, fast-moving description of one pilot's experiences in combat, combined with an honest and candid discussion of the consequences of having had those experiences. I think everyone should read it. I will be proud to share it with my children, many years from now, when I don't mind them reading the "f-word" that many times.