This book was mentioned on Dr. Phil and, having issues with my terminally ill father, I thought it would be a good purchase to make in the hopes of resolving some issues before my father passes. As I read the book I realized that, as the head of his own family unit, my relationship with my father is up to him to try to correct as I, being the child, had little control over the dynamics of my own upbringing. I quickly realized that, although this book was not going to help me in the way I had hoped, it was going to help me to improve the family I had created with my own husband and children. The amazing thing about this is that, even though my husband and I do not have a perfect marriage, we have the best relationship of anyone I know. Before reading this, I wouldn't have thought my family needed much help at all. After reading, I realized that there are quite a few areas I could improve on and, even though I consider myself to be happy in my marriage, I shouldn't settle for an alright marriage when I could truly have an excellent one. Troy Dunn has given me inspiration to make changes I did not even realize needed to be made. I am filled with such insight and motivation to make our family the best it can be. In the past two days, since reading this book, I have felt a warmth toward my husband that I had not been feeling for quite some time. It's a wonderful feeling to have that love return to my life. I never want to lose that feeling again. I have already told my nine year old son that he will be getting this book as a wedding present. I also put my copy in the mail to my dad. Please keep you fingers crossed that Troy Dunn can get through his thick skull the same way he was able to get through mine. Good luck to each of you and God bless!